A few hours ago I had a really weird conversation with an ex. Both 23. It is originally my house. This is our second year living together. Getting back with an ex after years is possible. There might be a number of reasons to explain this behavior. December 10, 2016 at 2:16 am Lisa. My ex and I were together for about a year and a half not very long but we spent a lot of time together. But about 3 months ago while we were arguing, I told him to get out. He broke my heart and we split for 6 months. I did have an ex from even longer ago contact me years down the road. Similar situation...ex (the one that got away) contacted after appx 15 years. Eventually told me he never chased me because he knew I would never sleep with him. 2 days isn't a hugely long time to wait given that you haven't spoken in two years. He stated that he was now in a bad relationship that wasn’t healthy. He was a complete idiot though. Just take it as an old friend saying hello. It was contact with him that opened old emotions - feelings she felt for him years ago, but had resolved with the breakup and never felt since. He was heartbroken, and we didn't talk for a long time. In our 20s we were on/off for about 3 years & during one of those off times she met someone else & ultimately got married. She replied to an e-mail address I only use for certain things so it isn't posted on FB, Myspace or anything or anywhere else. Stated that he had feelings for me and he loves me but needed to get hisself together. Hello, my ex said he wasn’t in love me after living together almost 2.5 years. He was my first love (I was 19, he was 21..now 27 and 29) we were together for 5 years. We did two years at home two years long distance and then he finally came to school with me and just started at the university this last fall. I was invited to her engagement party where she kissed me passionately but … Broke up again. He had moved to a new city where I was to months later, but he started talking to other girls. Anyway, he told that was the reason he didn’t love me anymore. He was my first boyfriend, and I his first girlfriend, and we dated for nearly five years before I broke up with him. Which of course is 100% untrue. She made a claim that I was e-mailing her ex bf and sending him e-mails saying things about her to him. He came back apologetic, but it wasn't the same, I was resentful. That completely ruined the good image I had of him. He moved away to Poland (his homeland) and we haven't spoken 2 years. However, just 4 months earlier he said he was happy with me. The reason for that is because dumpers need a lot of alone time to live their life the way they had envisioned. So my ex and I were together for almost 6 years. My ex contacted me a few months ago after 2 years as well. My ex tried to contact me. If it takes much longer for her to get back to you, though, I would stop expecting a reply. 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