She was my 2nd long term gf. And I already regret it. The worst thing is that we study in the same school and in the same class. I’ve been NC for 2 weeks but he has been texting me every other day asking me how I am doing or for random things. He would call me every day and we would talk for at least an hour he would send me a good morning text every morning and good night texts every day and we texted throughout the day. Saw them today when picking up my son. And that is the main reason why you two are still in touch with each other. “I broke up with my girlfriend about a week ago. We're trying to be friends, because as much as this break-up hurts, we didn't end on bad terms and we both very much enjoy each other's company. POST BU 1yr+ since march 2011. I wish her the best and happiness as im over her This other part I cannot accept. His ex is still around. Not many guys get to see the behind-the-scenes progression a woman can go through after a breakup. Think about it. I'm just feeling so sad, alone, and confused. If they just broke up but they’re still hanging out, you need to chuck up your deuces and go! More and more, being with him is looking way better than being without him. Talking daily is a good sign that you may get her back one day. It's not always easy to tell that your ex misses you. I broke up with my ex and he went NC for 4 weeks. Sometimes people dont fit for whatever reason. We are both still very much in love with each other but we realized it just was not going to work because we bicker a lot and can't see ourselves staying together forever. Ever since we broke up we still talk a lot and text every day about how we're doing and we've seen each other … "We never fought, and we both respected one another and still … Here are some signs to look out for that mean your ex still cares about you. So you and your ex broke up and you're starting to think that maybe he or she misses you and wants you as his girlfriend or her boyfriend again. Kirsch has some personal experience on the topic. It would be much easier to me to not see her almost every day. I was her first bf. 6 yrs + 1 kid together. I haven’t responded because I don’t want to break the NC rule. She and her last ex broke up amicably and still do occasional check ins. I don’t care if their breakup was mutual (which it never is) — they shouldn’t be spending time together! If you broke up on good terms , it means that nothing’s really damaged yet. Your relationship is still salvageable and it is probably just a matter of time before your ex comes back to you. Depending on how invested a woman was with a guy – and her state of mind and health, it can be a quick progression through emotional stages like sadness, desperation, anger, and acceptance, or it can be those things over and over again with a little … I don't need him to want to get back together with me, but it hurts to know that my lingering feelings of intense love and care aren't reciprocated. It was pretty mutual, although extremely painful. Still with the guy she got with about 4 months after we broke up. My boyfriend and I broke up a month ago. I can take the break up. After 4 weeks I contacted him, we talked and got back together but he broke up with me. Honestly, the only way you will know is if you ask her. She may just need some time to evaluate everything. I broke up with her because I wanted to get better at myself, I tried to explain it to her, but hopeless. So you’re here because you want to know the signs your ex wants you back… but is too stubborn to admit it.. 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